How AI is changing child safety online: what parents need to know

In 2024, the Internet Watch Foundation reported a 380% rise in Al-generated Child Sexual Abuse Material (CSAM), a number that encompasses how mainstream access to AI is enabling predators to sexually exploit children faster and more anonymously than ever before.

As a young male advocate, I've spent my teenage years witnessing firsthand that the internet is not a safe “playground”. Children, especially boys, around the world are being entrapped into cycles of exploitation and silenced by the shackles of shame. Through my advocacy work and collaborative efforts with global youth leaders, I've realized that silence between a child and their parents marks a troubling reality— one that encouraged me to include parents in the conversation of fighting against the sexual exploitation of children. Too many parents still think to themselves, “this could never happen to my child.” It's time to change that.

Parents, be aware!

Most parents associate AI with schoolwork tools or digital assistants; however, in the wrong hands AI becomes a weapon. Predators who once faced many hurdles to exploit a child can now do it in seconds. AI tools have made it more efficient than ever to groom, manipulate and exploit kids online. While tactics like sextortion and grooming have been rampant for decades, AI is introducing two new dangerous methods that every parent needs to understand.

Two new dangers

1. Deepfakes: The rise of nudify sites (AI-powered websites and applications that use AI to digitally remove clothing from photographs, creating fake nude or sexualized images of people without their consent) has allowed predators to create entire libraries of CSAM using just one innocent image of any child — meaning that today, exploitation can occur even if a child has never shared anything inappropriate.
2. AI chatbots: predators are now relying on AI chatbots to automate all the communication for them. These bots can simulate natural conversation, mimic speech patterns of real kids and build trust quickly. This technology has expedited the grooming process and made it harder for both kids and parents to recognize danger.

While the risks are rising, protections are not; however, parents can take proactive steps right now to ensure safety for their children.

What parents can do

Here are five key actions every parent can take to protect their children online:

1. Talk early and often: don't wait for your child to bring it up, because it is likely they won't. Initiate open, ongoing conversations in a non-judgmental tone. Ask what platforms they engage with, who they talk to, and if anything online has made them uncomfortable. Keeping that door open allows you to offer guidance without making them feel ashamed.
2. Understand AI in relation to Sexual Exploitation of Children (SEC): now, even a harmless photo of your child can be twisted into explicit material using AI. Even more concerning, predators can gain the trust of any child in ways that are nearly invisible to adults. It's crucial to understand the technologies our generation is using, not only to talk about them, but to recognize warning signs and protect your child
3. Pay attention to stigma, especially their impact on boys: according to Cybertip.ca, 83% of sextortion victims are male, yet boys are far less likely to seek help after being exploited. Years of being taught to be “tough” and to avoid vulnerability makes it harder for them to speak out. By telling them not to cry or talk about our emotions they have been forced to be silent, and that silence is costing lives. Normalize conversations about feelings and online safety. Show interest in their gaming or social media, and let your sons know that asking for help is a sign of strength.
4. Develop digital literacy skills together: even if you don't know how to play Roblox or “send a Snap,” you can still explore digital safety together. Sit down with your child to check privacy settings, review friend lists, and talk about what they're seeing and who they're speaking to. Online safety should be as normal to discuss as schoolwork or chores. Don't assume your child knows how to spot red flags - chances are, they don't.
5. Know what to do if something goes wrong: if your child becomes a target of online exploitation, stay calm. Reassure them they're safe and that telling you was the right choice. After speaking with them, take action:
   • Take screenshots of messages
   • Report to Cybertip.ca
   • Contact local law authorities
   • Connect them to mental health support, because while online abuse may happen in seconds, the emotional damage lasts much longer.

Final thoughts

Today's youth are growing up in a world with risks that many adults couldn't have imagined thirty years ago, and AI is amplifying them. But parents aren't powerless. By staying informed, Equipping parents and youth with the knowledge and skills they need has never been more critical.talking openly, and breaking down stigma, you can reduce your child's risk of becoming a victim.

TELUS Wise's responsible AI workshop helps teens develop a deeper understanding of AI, strengthen their critical thinking abilities, debunk common misconceptions, and explore the complex ethical considerations surrounding AI use. OneChild has also co-created resources with youth to help parents navigate these issues. Visit OneChild to learn more and join the movement to protect children online.